My suggestion to the Jewish community (I won't use the word 'friends' anymore, because just as I wonder if every Catholic priest I see touches little boys, I now wonder if every Jewish person I meet is part of some Israeli OP), is to get more heavily involved in the peace process, to put pressure on decisionmakers to resolve the troubles in Palestine in a manner that respects the inherent humanity of all involved, and upholds the standards of international law everyone claims to hold so dear.